Trying to do it all is gonna kill you. Literally. Stress kills. You can’t do it all. Stop trying.

Recently I’ve been pondering on the fact that society/social media, likes to point out when someone isn’t doing it all. 

Eating healthy? Well, why don’t you filter your water too? Sleeping well Why the heck are you using a chemical cleaner? Taking your vitamins? Didn’t you know that you are killing yourself with EMFs? Kids in public school? Did you know they’re missing time at home with you? Kids in homeschool?  Why aren’t you getting your kids some socialization and friends? So, let me remind you – you can’t do it all.

I shared this list as part of a Facebook Live “Top 10” series. I shared My Top 10 Favorite Online Stores – as well as my Top 10 Kitchen Gadgets – and I wanted to share this one with y’all too…my Top 10 Young Living products!

Disclaimer: If I were to share my favorite Young Living products tomorrow, I would probably  have different things on the list!

Because I just love Young Living and my love for these things changes based on my mood, y’all! I use so many Young Living products, choosing my favorite is like picking a favorite child… IMPOSSIBLE. But today, I’m going to share my top 10! In no particular order, my Top 10 Young Living Products are:

• Thieves Household Cleaner. One capful poured in a spray bottle – filled with water up to the 24oz line. I get about 22 bottles of full-size cleaner. The bottle costs me $22.50. I’ve never used another cleaner that was safe, that we like, that replaced every other cleaner in my house.
• Thieves Laundry Detergent. Eli has super sensitive skin, and he reacts to everything synthetic. Because of this, I have to be very careful what I use on him and this is a winner for us. I dilute it in half – it’s strong enough to do this! Then I put half of it in the is pump bottle diluted with water. Two pumps is all I need. One bottle lasts me around 8 months!
• Progessence Plus. This is made from Wild Yam Extract. I put two drops on my arm every day. This helps me feel like a normal person! After I had Ruth Ann, this was my emotions were all over the place. This really helps me be an easier person to get along with and a better mom. Also, PMS went buh-bye.
• Super-B. Before finding this supplement, every day around 2pm, I got a wave of tiredness so heavy I thought I wasn’t going to make it through the day. I take two of these every day, and now, I don’t have that anymore! Our supplements are better than any other because most of them have essential oils in them which makes them more bioavailable. This means it is easier for your body to absorb – which means you absorb more of the vitamin you are taking. Don’t worry if your pee is bright neon, that’s normal!

Super B helps me to be a Super Mom!

•  Peace and Calming. The smell of Peace and Calming is my absolute favorite smell.Everybody has a different one – my kids like Stress Away and Valor. It makes me so calm, y’all. For whatever reason, wind makes me nervously anxious – flying too. This is my favorite soothing oil to help me when I’m anxious, scared, stressed, etc.
• Lemon. I love this because I have children. Why? Here’s what children like to do… draw on walls, put stickers on things (and launder them), get gum on their hair and their clothes. use sharpie on the walls, use sharpie on the kitchen table, use sharpie on all. the. things. What is the sharpie deal!? We go through so much lemon because this gets off everything. Annie got gum on her best silk dress I thought it was a goner – I tried everything. But then when I remembered the lemon. Two drops – left it sitting on the counter and I wiped it off with my finger.  This gets off sticky, greasy, anything that sticks on and won’t come off.

Hands-down, I use Lemon than any other oil.

• Sensation Massage Oil. It’s about to get exciting up in here! This will make your bedroom sensational. This is best lube I’ve ever found. Girl. It is like Magic Kingdom inside a bottle. It feels like silk and smells amazing. How many people do you know can say… “When we get jiggy with it under those sheets it smells so good!” Not before now 🙂
• Lip Balm. I am a lip balm snob, meaning I don’t like most lip balms. I have tried so many brands and varieties and I am in love with Young Living’s lip balm. It comes in Lavender, Grapefruit, Cinnamint. I have it in every room in this house, in my purse, in the car – all the places.
• Charcoal Bar Soap. This is actually my new favorite – it’s a newer product from Young Living. It’s made for your face – all skin types really. Works especially well if you’ve got acne-prone or oily skin, but it’s gentle enough for sensitive skin. And it works well for dry skin too. And one thing you might not know about Charcoal… it’s also deodorizing. So we’ve been using it in the shower too – washing our whole body with it! I just love it. It’s definitely my favorite soap I’ve used in a long time. And Barry loves it – it’s not just for women!
• Cool-Azul Pain Cream. Parenthood is hard and guys…some days, I hurt, but in a good way. This stuff is amazing. I put it all over my aches and pains and it works better than anything else in this world. Plus it smells good – like wintergreen chewing gum. I bought this for Barry but I use it more than he does. I really love that it’s got that cooling sensation and slightly numbing effect. One tube lasts a long time! I’ve only purchase 2 tubes in 2 years.

There are more…

There ya have it! I hope that was helpful – whether you’re a Young Living member already and looking to branch out OR you are not a member and wondering what other options are available.

It’s not just oils ya’ll – it’s a lifestyle. If you want to see how we use oily products daily, I’ve got that up for ya too.

Happy oiling!

Hi, I’m Stacy. I’m a 1wing2 on the Enneagram. If you’ve got ZERO idea what that means, let me help out. The Enneagram (or enneagram types) is a personality typing “system.”

The Enneagram of Personality, or simply the Enneagram, is a model of the human psyche which is principally understood and taught as a typology of nine interconnected personality types.

—Wikipedia

I went kicking and screaming into this whole thing – I don’t really like personality typing. In the past, I’ve thought it was crazy stupid and why on earth would I want to be “labeled.” But friends, I have to tell you, knowing my Enneagram type has given me SO MUCH FREEDOM. Learning more about myself gives freedom to be the best version of me, but also, and probably more importantly, freedom to work to UNDERSTAND OTHERS.

Did you catch that?

I used to have the hardest time understanding why my friends would do certain things or react in a certain manner. They’d do something where I’d react, “I would NEVER do such a thing…” But then I’d see them able to do things I didn’t have the capacity to do.

Back in May, I did a series of photo posts on my personal Facebook page – about granny panties. Yup, you heard me. I was sick and tired of having wedgies all day – and having these skimpy panties that didn’t feel good (or look good) on my rear end. I WAS FINISHED! I wanted some granny panties – the kind that actually covers your backside and makes you feel supported! So here is my official review of all the granny panties I tried!

It’s really easy to SAY you want to establish a new habit – we say it all the time:

• I’m going to start exercising!
• I’m going to get up early!
• I’m going to take a shower!
• I’m going to take my supplements!
• I’m going to wear clothes today!

And we do okay…for like 3 days. Then we totally bomb it in The Marcels Blue Moon style.

Why is it so difficult?

Why do we say that we want to do new things, but we don’t follow through? Is it because we don’t have any willpower? 

Possibly, but I think it comes down to self-discipline. Which really isn’t the fun answer, is it? I’m known for giving the Not Fun Answer. Sorry.

So, I want to share with you guys something that has made it easier for me to develop a new habit once I decide it is a priority for me.

You only need to do 5 productive things, every single day, to be successful in this thing we call LIFE. That’s a pretty bold statement, but I think it might actually be an accurate one. But it sure does make you wonder…what are those five things?!

Just in case y’all were curious…this post topic about communicating with a busy spouse was actually Barry’s idea. Barry is very busy and so am I. But that doesn’t mean we can skip the communication aspect of our relationship. It’s crucial to any healthy relationship – especially a marriage – to have consistent communication.

I can tend toward pessimism. That shocks most people when I say it because I normally have an upbeat attitude and I’m always making jokes. But it’s true – I pretty regularly look at the glass half empty. Thankfully, I have found one small action can change your entire day. What is that one small action? Keep reading. What is our goal with that small action?