For the other parts in this series:
I Don’t Buy Clothes Online…CONVERT
Thred Up Review: Thumbs Up or Thumbs Down?
Twice: Second Time is a Charm?
Stitch Fix: Budget Buster or Worthwhile Investment?
Shopping for kids clothing is HARD, y’all. It just is. Okay, so maybe just for me. Maybe your kids all fall in the right size range for their age, don’t have fat feet, and like to wear their pants where they should be instead of 6 inches below their belly button (Mooooooooooooom, the band is too close to my belly button!). Or maybe your kids don’t ruin almost everything they wear in 5 seconds flat because wearing food is all the rage right now. Maybe…but I seriously doubt it.
Because kids are hard on clothes. And because clothes are so expensive new. And because they only wear them a short time. And because I’m cheap frugal. And because I like bacon. I choose to purchase used clothing for my kids. Period.
That doesn’t mean my poor, poor deprived children never have new clothes (birthdays and Christmas!) and it doesn’t mean they parade around the neighborhood looking like raggamuffins…unless muffins smeared all of their face/clothing counts. In fact, my kids are complimented regularly for their cute attire (saying attire makes me feel fancy). It just means we don’t spend large amounts of money on clothes – for us or for them.
Saving a Buck (Doe a deer, a female dear)
I have lots of friends who chose to buy new clothing for their kids. I think that’s awesome! They are always looking for sales and clearance – online and in-store. They follow sites like Deal Seeking Mom and Southern Savers so they know when there is a great deal online for clothes. Way to save a buck, mommies! I know from hearing from them that they can get clothes for great prices!!!
I’ve heard that after season clearance at Target and Belk is the bomb diggity. (Yes, a country girl just said that.)
Or maybe they shop used, but do so online. Because like I told you on the Thred Up post, Thred Up offers used children’s clothing. It’s a lot cheaper than buying new off the rack.
Those are both really great options!
That just doesn’t work for me.
Why Not?
I think online thrift stores charge too much for children’s clothes. Yes, it’s a better deal than new, but it’s still a lot…unless you’re used to always buying brand new in-season, then it’s a GREAT idea for you!
I can’t rely on YaddaYadda Kids and More to have a sale on exactly what I need for my kids. I can’t count on those random sales. I just can’t. I’m not a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants girl. Yes, they are good deals, but they aren’t for certain. And it certainly won’t cover everything I need for a whole season. It’s too random and it makes the planner in me get the shakes.
Brick and mortar thrift stores are a great option for kids clothes…but like I told you, it’s hard for us all to get out on a whim. And nudity sounds really appealing when I think about trying to take my kids to the thrift store to shop. If you like adventure, maybe a thrift store in town is exactly what you need!
That just doesn’t work for me.
How I Shop for My Kids
I shop a bi-yearly children’s consignment sale for my kids. Wee-Cycle It in Abingdon, Virginia. Twice a year, I’m able to get exactly what we need. All in one place. ONE PLACE! It’s not something I have to cross my fingers and hope it happens. I know it’s going to happen. I can count on clothing my children at this sale.
I usually have help from my Mama and Barry and we get down to business. I keep a list of things we need going throughout the year. I go to the sale with a game plan – and I shop like a bacon eating ninja.
Having help and knowing this is only twice a year makes it very doable with the kids. I usually let Annie and Andy play with other kids who are there, or they peruse the toys and I let them choose one item. I wear Eli (baby) for ease of shopping.
I get all my NECESSARY items first…and then I come back to the 1/2 price sale and get a majority of their clothing. This means I very rarely pay over $5 for anything for them (I know this will increase as they age). I usually pay around $3 for items – including church dresses. Sure, there are more expensive items available, but I have a price range and I stick to it. 🙂 NOTE – I have learned that boys clothing goes first, so I don’t count on their items at 1/2 off…but when I find stuff, I consider it a bonus…like a piece of bacon that was hiding under your eggs.
Why This Works
There are many reasons why I recommend this option.
- It’s only twice a year, so that limits your shopping needs throughout the year
- Prices are excellent and there is almost always a 1/2 off sale at consignment sales
- It’s something you can count on.
- Shoes are worn in already…can I get a witness?!
- You support other local mommies trying to make money back on their clothing
- It’s fun
Tips for You
This is how I do shopping…and it might work for you too! If you’ve never considered this option, maybe you should. It’s been a lifesaver for us. Wee-Cycle has changed how I shop…and I know from talking with other mommies, these types of sales are all around the country!
Ask around – see if there is a high quality sale in your area. Emphasis on HIGH QUALITY. Not all sales are created equal. And I’ve been to some that are…well…how can I say this nicely? THEY STINK.
Once you find a good sale, try it out. You’ll be overwhelmed…but that’s okay. You’ll be in the swing of things before you know it! Visit that sale a few times to understand how it works and were things are located.
Keep a list of needed items throughout the year – not only does this help for a consignment sale, but it means you have a list of items if anyone asks you for gift ideas. Boom.
Budgeting
Buying your clothing all at once instead of here and there can be a quite a blow to your budget. So, I suggest setting a little aside every month and keeping it out in cash. Put it in a safe place…like on top of the cabinets with the chocolate stash. Most sales like you to bring cash to shop.
We know that during Wee-Cycle months, we won’t be setting aside as much for savings that month…and that’s okay two times per year.
So, does buying children’s clothing online make cents? Not for us.
Hannah G. says
Amen Sister! That’s the best way for buying kids clothes. I cringe at the thought of paying more than $5 for something they are going to out grow in a couple months or spill ketchup all over! Your right, consignment sale shopping has to have a game plan and strategy and BUDGET to get the best for your money. My sister and I volunteer at Hopscotch Consignment sale in Kingsport so we get to be in the first group to shop, which is awesome to get to be the first people to shop everything! I go in with cash in my pocket and that’s all I have to spend because I’ve been known to come out with a lot more than my kids could ever need lol 😉
Stacy says
You should check out Wee – it’s much closer. 🙂
Hannah G. says
I do shop wee too, but I never find enough for the kids. I think it’s because I shop during the public sale and I know with doing Hopscotch for so long that you have to volunteer and shop first to find the good stuff. I was going to consign with wee last time but it was full when I went to sign up so next time I’ll remember to sign up early!
Stacy says
I usually get 75% of Annie’s clothes at the Saturday 1/2 off sale. 🙂 Can’t wait for the boys though, they go first.
Rejena says
We have something that looks very similar to WeeCycle It. I have noticed that as my boys get older, finding jeans without holes in the knees is a big issue!!! Typically, I can find everything else I need, except that. My boys wear a 3T and 7 now, so I’m hoping that it is just something that affects that size range, and once we get past the 7’s, we will be good to go again. But, I do consider myself very lucky to only have to buy new jeans. Since I know the size, I just order them all on-line–with a sale, and coupon, and free shipping, of course! 😉
Stacy says
My Annie is in a phase where she’s wearing the knees out of everything….nice to know that’s normal, even for a girl. Ha ha! 🙂
Angelique Shara says
My daughter’s clothing went through a lot of wear and tear whenever she hit elementary school, especially the knees of her pants.
Stacy says
Okay – so it’s normal. Whew! 🙂
Becky W says
Thanks for the tips! I’m new to this whole kids’ clothes shopping thing. So far, I’ve managed to amass what I’m hoping is going to be enough clothes for baby’s first year pretty cheaply, mostly thanks to my mother-in-law snagging several bags of clothes that people were getting rid of and my husband’s cousin giving us about a dozen more. But I have bought a few things, mostly either from thrift stores on sale days or a consignment sale we went to recently so I could fill in a known gap in what we had. (I’ve also sewn a few things, because that’s how I roll, but I actually only had to buy fabric for one of them. The other two things were made using scraps from clothes I’d previously made for myself!)
Stacy says
You sound all set! 🙂
Chelsey says
I had always done the post-season sales at Target and Gymboree, but this last year I started doing exactly what you described at a biyearly consignment sale where we live. This past March I spent about $70 on clothes and shoes (including bathing suits, because we have a pool and swim a ton) for my 5-year-old and a few things for my 4-year-old (who is thankfully wearing mostly his brother’s hand-me-downs). They are both good on clothes until the fall. I set aside about $25/month for clothes and that turns out to be plenty! Another bonus to these sales is you can sell your own stuff. I made over $500 at the last sale, which was getting rid of a lot of baby stuff, but even in the fall I still have a ton to sell and am hoping to at least break even on my boys’ clothes–which means I’m clothing them for free!!
Stacy says
Yes! I have written in the past about making money consigning….it’s a wonderful thing! It takes some work, but it’s worth it.