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Rest Doesn’t Just Happen

Preparing for Sabbath

I think a lot of people believe that rest is something you will have or do when your life slows down.

But here’s the truth: that’s probably never going to happen. If we wait for life to slow down, we will never rest. The time when we need rest the most is in the middle of the hustle of our everyday lives – ballgames, church, community events, etc.

I used to believe: I’ll sleep when I’m dead. This led me to serious burnout and anxiety. That’s actually NOT how we’re supposed to live. We’re supposed to get a clue from the Lord who actually commanded us to rest. (Exodus 20:8)

When we finally decided to put work aside for one day – even in our busy lives – we found that the Lord multiplied our time. We can get everything done that we need to AND rest. It’s the same concept as tithe: trust God in the rest/tithe, and He provides enough.Even on days when we don’t feel like stopping or resting, we still do it. And we’re always glad we did.

So, here’s what that looks like for us, if you need some ideas. But you need to make a restful schedule work for you. HOWEVER, you do need to plan rest. It will NOT just happen.

  1. We start on Saturday night at dinner and go until Sunday at dinner. That lets us pick up work again Sunday night to get ready for Monday. (Update: This is when I make sure I have Monday breakfast ready to go.)

  2. I prepare all our food Saturday so that Sunday, I don’t have to cook. I can reheat food and use the dishwasher.

  3. We take a break from daily chores (except picking up and putting away, to maintain the house).

  4. We try to stay home in the afternoons with the exception of a couple Sundays a month. We rest best at home.

Here is something to note: When you slow down, folks won’t understand. Some might think you’re angry at them. Rest isn’t normal – so when you start planning for it, you’ll seem “weird.” It’s still the right way to go. Don’t let what others think about your or what others want you to do to sway your decisions for your family.

Rest is good. Plan for it.

Soli Deo gloria,

Stacy

About Stacy

Stacy is a Homemaking and Business Mom Mentor, the author of two cookbooks, creator of multiple e-courses, seasoned life coach, and comedian extraordinaire. Her first priority is her husband and her children - family first. She presses on each day because her calling is to teach, train, and mentor other ladies to have their dreams. She believes if it’s not easy, you won’t do it – because she’s lived it. She’ll bring YOU the awesome so that you can get your home back into control and watch your business soar. For tips and easy strategies, you can follow her on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram.

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